Not every couple dreams of being center stage. If you’re camera-shy or just feel awkward posing in front of a lens, you’re not alone. Many engaged couples want beautiful wedding or elopement photos—but dread the idea of having all eyes on them. The good news? You don’t need to be outgoing to have stunning, emotional images that tell your story.

Here are our favorite photography tips for shy couples to help you relax, feel confident, and actually enjoy the experience.

1. Choose a Photographer Who Gets You

One of the most important things you can do as a shy couple is to find a photographer who makes you feel at ease. When you connect with your photographer, the nerves melt away. During our sessions at Mycah Bain Photography, we focus on creating a relaxed, playful environment—think more laughing and walking hand-in-hand, less stiff poses and forced smiles.

We’ve photographed couples all around Minneapolis—from intimate elopements at Minnehaha Falls to dreamy weddings at the Hewing Hotel—and each one started with trust and connection.

2. Skip the Stiff Poses

You don’t need to know how to pose to look good. In fact, the best photos often come from natural movement and small moments. We’ll guide you with gentle direction that feels more like hanging out than performing.

Try these instead:

• Hold hands and walk slowly together
  
• Whisper something sweet (or silly!) into each other’s ears
  
• Lean into each other for a forehead kiss
  
• Share a quiet moment looking out over the lake at Boom Island Park
  

These types of prompts help you focus on each other—not the camera.

3. Choose a Comfortable Location

Feeling at home in your surroundings makes a big difference. Choose a location that feels meaningful, quiet, or private—like your favorite walking trail, your cozy living room, or a less crowded part of Como Park.

For elopements, places like Hidden Falls or Lyndale Park Rose Garden offer gorgeous backdrops with fewer onlookers. A peaceful setting lets you breathe, connect, and just be yourselves.

4. Plan a Session Around Golden Hour

Lighting can work wonders for your photos and your confidence. Golden hour—the soft, warm light just after sunrise or before sunset—is gentle, flattering, and romantic. It helps you look your best without any harsh shadows or bright glares.

Bonus: it also tends to be a quieter time in public parks and popular photo spots around Minneapolis.

5. Embrace the Candid Moments

The truth is, some of the most powerful photos happen when you forget the camera is there. Whether it’s laughter during a twirl, a quiet tear during vows, or a simple hug—we love capturing those real, in-between moments.

When you focus on each other, not the camera, the magic happens.

Ready to Capture Your Story?

If you’re a shy couple dreaming of wedding or elopement photos that feel natural and genuine, we’d love to help. At Mycah Bain Photography, we specialize in creating a relaxed experience that brings out your true connection—without the awkwardness.

Let’s make your love story feel effortless and beautiful. Reach out to us today to learn more or book your session!